We make difference by how we treat people

A man went to a prayer house. He forgot to switch off of the phone and in the middle of silent prayer his phone rang. The Pastor scolded him. The worshippers lambasted him for interrupting the silence. While on the way home, his wife kept on lecturing him on his carelessness. One could see the shame, embarrassment and humiliation on his face.
After all this, he never stepped foot in the prayer house again.
That evening, he went to a bar. He was still nervous and trembling as shameful words still keep ringing in his ears. He spilled his drink on the table by accident. The waiter apologized and gave him a napkin to clean himself. The Janitor mopped the floor. The female manager offered him a complimentary drink. She also gave him a huge hug and a peck while saying, “Don’t worry man. Who doesn’t make mistakes?”. He has not stopped going to that bar since then.